Wednesday, May 6, 2015

How to speak Menglish

HELP!!! 

Recently our kids have been way into the movie Big Hero 6.  The main character Hiro really struggles to let his friends help him.  His "independence" nearly destroys him.

Why can't I ask for what I need?

Why does that seem so hard for a woman?

Is it because... 

...we have to admit that we're in need?

...we're not perfect?

...we don't have it together?

...we have to let go of some of our independence?

...we simply need help?

Asking for help is one of those menglish words.  

What is menglish? Great question.  It's English that men really understand!   

So, in saying "I need your help" it makes a man act like a dog when it spies a squirrel. It's tracking it down immediately!


So, when you need some help, realize that you're allowing your man to be your hero and help you.  Men are hardwired this way.  

And really, that's what he strives to be....YOUR hero!  :)

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