Saturday, October 31, 2015

Get Playful!

Playful.

It's a word we associate with:

pets

kids

parenting

romance

But let's be honest, we don't usually put the following two words together:

playful + marriage

Usually, age, responsibility, and low energy wipe it out of our system.

What if that were different?

I recently heard a woman share that she writes on her calendar "Get playful!"  It puts her in a mindset to be spirited.  Imagine how differently our days would be if we had that attitude towards our friends, kids, and especially our spouses!

And, because this is Sexy Saturday of course, imagine what "Get playful!" would do for your sex life!

Certainly, we all could use some more playfulness in the bed instead of being utilitarian, but what about being playfully sexy with our spouse throughout the day?  Fun touches, eye winks, sexy texts, humorously suggestive sticky notes in the fridge, high fives after getting the kids down to sleep, 30-second dance break in the kitchen, jumping in the leaves you just raked, or whatever else you can come up with.

It's not about doing these things because they lead to making love.  But, chances are, they just might make that happen a bit more frequently!  The big idea, however, is to live in a spirit of enjoyment together.  Raise the
mood in the house, lighten the atmosphere, bring a sense of anticipation to your routine, let delightful laughter come again, and...get playful!

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